The Real 10 Characteristic or Behavior of Your Partner That Makes Me Want to Break off With Him or Her

Dear friendsand colleagues,
As it is for me, the real 10 characteristic or behavior of your partner that makes me want to
break off with him or her is:

1.Overprotective
We need a good friend. A good friend should always protect us from dangerous
elements in life. However, if he or is overprotective to us, it can be a great nuisance to us too. I had a friend who always told me that thing is good, this is bad during my Uni days. At first, it’s a kind of ok but after some time, it turned out to be a mind boggling situation.

Action taken: I ditched that friend and find those who are not so protective. Nobody
needs a friend that can replace your mum and dad in campus!

2. Non explorer
Our younger day is where we can do a lot of thing and also explore new ways of doing it! Therefore, it’s good to have a friend where he or she is adventurous and would like to try to do other than our normal routine task. A non-explorer type of friend is somehow or rather can also make you feel older by being a homely like our grandparents!

Action taken: Invite them to do simple outdoor activities such as walking in the park, go
jogging in a stadium or other interesting free-of-charge outdoor activities which is not only good for your health but it’s also not going to tear downyour pocket.


3. Clumsy mumsy
I had a close friend before and his name is Adam (not a real name lah, I’m not going to embarrass him here!). He is a bit clumsy at times. He couldn’t hold anything tight. A lot of things will fall-off from his hands if he is the one
holding it.

Action taken: Being a good friend, I try to find out what is the real problem that he is facing at that time. It turns out to be that he can’t focus and got easilydistracted from other thing while doing the required task. Therefore I suggest to him that is good if he could meet somebody to get help to overcome his problem. Now is better and doing well in life. Even better than me!


4. Perfectionist
Do you ever have a friend who is always doing things perfectly? Hahaha yes I have it! It was kind of scary experience as it almost drove me crazy at that time. He will do everything accordingly, timely and without any flaws. He will study this much time, completed all the tutorial questions from the book and attended all the lectures on time and leave the hall as the last person after the
lecturer left! Scary isn’t it?

Action taken: This fellow needed someone to tell him that life is not everything to be
followed by rule and order. I told him that, it’s also good to be loosening a bit in terms of having friendship with someone else. Until today, I think he is still unchanged and yes…he is unmarried.

5. Busybody
Busybodying is a must in Malaysian society. We will always meet this kind of people around. It is the kind of person you just want to punch in the mouth for being so annoying. They have no life and they frequently use their excessive amount of time to annoy and monitor others and spy on people as if they think they are a cop or an important person or something. They wanted to know all things that you do, what you owned and bitch it around!

Actiontaken: Busy bodies are usually self-righteous hypocrites that are quick to point out the faults in others but get defensive when you point out theirs. I can't stand any busybody. I want to punch them in the face.


6. He or she is a Stingy Bugger
Do you had a friend who always asked you to pay first when we go to lunch and dinner together
and at the same time figuring out on how NOT to take his or her money out? I had it last time. I t’s a pain in the ass and sometimes he could be so heartless by no paying his portion of lunch and dinner meal.

Action taken: we would never ask him again for any meal or any other TTS (The Tarik Session).

7. ApplePolisher
Hahaha. This is also another “good” character to discuss. This kind of people you can easily
find them if you are involved in politics. However, we could also found this kind of people in any ordinary office. This kind of people would always say the best of everything even though the reality seems to be the opposite. Yeah I know that everybody likes to be praise and to be honored by too much of them is really unnecessary and sometimes it is not to be seen as sincere approaches.

Action taken: I had a friend who is constantly doing this every day and everytime he sees an opportunity of doing it. If he sees someone who can benefit him he will start his apple polishing skill with no concern to others around him. I will try not to be close to them in future.


8. Two face person / Back stabber
Sometimes in life if you are unfortunate, you will see this kind of people. In front of us he will be nice and pretending that he has no issues with us but whenever we turn back on them, they start to say or do things to us. Usually this people are super nice when we meet them and they will talk with some other issues with the other friends around you. The normal case is your close friend will reveal it to you the real deal with him and whatever things he or she said to them about you.

Action taken: Try being nice to them like usual. But at the same time you could also try to offer more help towards the person who do this to you. If the person is a normal human being, she or she will understand that no matter in what condition (even if they had do bad things to you) you will never succumb to it. They will realize later that what they did to you before was a big mistake.

9. Being somebody else (acting)
I have seen a friend always acted to another friend of mine about his background. He said to
my friend that he is from a rich businessman family living in a big house with a chauffeur driven cars. However that is not the case. He is a just an ordinary guy with an ordinary family.

Action taken: At first we did not know the real situation until one he had a money problem and
had to borrow a few bucks from us. At that time we were puzzled at the situation where we thought that it is impossible that a rich boy could ask money from us. We told him to drop the act immediately.


10. Cheater
This kind of is the most hatred by me. I cannot stand being with them as I believe they are not
sincere being friends to you. I had a lot of cheating case to tell but for me I just do not want to rub the old wounds as it is very painful for me to recall all those memory back.

Action taken: Let others cheat, but not you. They will realize some day that what a big lost
for them by cheating you.

That’s all folks. I.M trying to be a better person nowadays by trying not to do this 10 characteristic but sometimes I.M not sure whether I.M standing in the right direction or not. Oh God please help me….:-/

Nur Amalina Che Bakri

Kecoh satu Malaya yang Amalina nie katanya dah berubah. Bermacam-macam tohmahan juga dilemparkan kepada gadis malang nie.

Kesian jugak tengok dia yang tak pasal-pasal kena kutuk, hina dan keji dek disebabkan beberapa gambar yang disiarkan dalam FB beliau.

Pada aku mudah jer. Itu semua pilihan dia. Kita yang disini hanya mampu menasihati beliau dan paling tidak pun berbicaralah dengan beliau. Jauh sekali kita dibenarkan mengeji beliau dan juga mengutuk beliau dengan kata-kata nista.

Ada yang kata dulu beliau adalah ikon peribadi sesetengah pihak. Akibat tersiarnya gambar ini ramai pulak yang rasa MENYESAL disebabkan menjadikan beliau ikon. Dengar cerita, pencapaian akedemik beliau masih baik dan dalam proses menulis buku lagi. Cerita lanjut disini http://badutrakyat.blogspot.com/2012/01/eksklusif-and-hot-news-penjelasan.html?utm_medium=twitter&utm_source=twitterfeed.

Pada pandangan saya, orang malaya nie suka sangat:

cari salah orang

mensensasikan kesilapan orang

cuba meletakkan kesemua kesalahan pada seseorang

suka menunjukkan yang dia lebih baik dari orang (tapi sebenornya dia pun semayang entah kemana)

Suka mencari bahan untuk diumpat di FB

Suka sangat menjatuhkan orang lain

Suka giler nak tunjuk yang dia lebih alim dari orang lain ( Islam mengajak umatnya untuk ingat-mengingati bukan untuk bermusuh-musuhan)

dan banyak lagilah.

Kesimpulanya, kita tak tau macam mana keadaan Amalina disana. Kita tak dapat pastikan pun yang akaun itu betul atau tidak. Kita kena siasat betul-betul sebelum menhamburkan kata-kata kita kepada dia agar tidak timbul fitnah. Cara saya mudah, kalau kita tak tau dan benda tu tak jadi depan mata kita jangan pandai-pandai nak buat kenyataan sendiri. Akhir kata, "Selagi ada fitnah dibumi ini, akan saya tentang ia habis-habisan".

Plan--do--evaluate--pray

azmir